

The last two nights, we have had family dates.
In my opinion, these are just as important and special and
our normal husby-wifey date nights.
Two nights ago we made an indoor fort in our family room,
using an abundance of couch cushions,
and settled in to watch the first Harry Potter movie
{Ryan has been begging to finally watch it!!}.
We ordered pizza from one of our favorite local restaurants
and stocked up on licorice.
It was a wonderful night…
{if you don’t count the slight case of food poisoning that Husby experienced – bummer}.
Yesterday, since Husby was still recovering,
we neglected our daytime errands.
When he was finally up and about, we set off to do some
much needed grocery shopping.
As we were making our way to Trader Joe’s,
we decided instead to head to the Irvine Spectrum
{one of our families faves}
and eat dinner at Wahoo’s, walk around, and go to Target
{since they also carry grocery items}.
My wafu bowl {highly recommend – tofu & veggies}
was fabulous, as always. The ambiance was perfect….
we were able to sit outside in their new seating area
and enjoy the coolness of the evening.
Afterwards we walked around.
I captured a few night-time shots of the ferris wheel…



We made our way to Barnes & Noble to browse the books
and their toys {for Christmas ideas}.
Ryan was in heaven when he found the Harry Potter display…

Miss Sophia Blue wandered by the Barefoot Contessa and shouted,
“Mama, LOOK! It’s Ina!”
I couldn’t resist making her pose {do you see the pure happiness}…

Today, I started thinking about great, low-cost, family date nights.
Here is the list that I came up with to share with you:
Put on some oldies but goodies and teach the kids how to do the Bunny Hop, the Electric Slide, and maybe even the Cha Cha! You may need to watch a few YouTube videos for this one!
Have the kids pick a country. Research that countries customs, traditions, and historical facts. End by making a meal to cebebrate the country.
Kids LOVE flashlights! Do this one in the backyard or even in the house!
Have the kids roll out the dough and top their individual sized pizzas with the toppings of their choice. Set up a sundae bar for dessert, complete with fruit, graham cracker & cookie crumbles, sprinkles, hot fudge and whipped cream! Yummy!!

{photo via: homemade pizza}
Always a fun family favorite! Get those bumpers ready {not for the kids… unfortunately, but for me!}.
Have the kids put whatever they want on {you could even get some silly props, or use extra items from your own closet}. Have a fashion show and don’t forget to take video and/or photos!
Find a good spot to have a family picnic and follow it up by spending time gazing at the stars. Teach the kids about the various constellations and moon cycles. Click {here} for a good book to help teach the kids.

{Photo via: star gazing}
Do this either in your home or break up into teams with one parent in each group and do the scavenger hunt around town.
Who doesn’t love board games? Our family favorite is Uno right now.
Take the whole family around your neighborhood or on a local trail for a bike ride {preferably before dark}!

{Photo via: family bike rides}
How funny would this be? Skippyjon Jones books lend themselves well for practicing your Spanish accent!
A good indoor, night-time game!
Either in the backyard or inside where it’s nice and warm! Using boxes, card tables, couch cushions, and lots of cozy blankets….make a tent or fort for the whole family to enjoy! Make indoor s’mores and read bedtime stories using flashlights or a lantern.

{Photo via: indoor tents}
**I don’t recommend making your family tent/fort near a lit fireplace!!**

{Photo via: summer bohemian fort}
Husby actually does this one at the firehouse! Cover your dining table or eating area in aluminum foil. Dish up dinner directly onto the foil in front of your kids. Everyone must eat using only their hands to eat the entire meal! No table manners here!
Inside or outside on the lawn {weather permitting, of course!}.

{Photo via: outdoor movie night}
We would love to hear some of your families favorite date nights! Please share with us by posting your comments below!


**Gobble Gobble**
We are just days away from enjoying our yummy and thankful Turkey dinners.
I enjoy this time baking desserts. I have yet to host an actual Thanksgiving.
I am the eldest of 5 sisters and a brother. Yes I know a big family.
If I am not visiting my husband on Thanksgiving at the fire station {he is off this year hooray!}.
I am visiting either Shane’s family or mine for holidays.
I would love to host {{hint, hint}}.

Though I am not, I am required to bring a few things to dinner.
One of my favorites is my Cranberry Sauce.
Either you like the gelatine type sauce or you don’t.
Mine is not from the can and it is a little chunky.
Just how I like it.
Perfect for left overs {we don’t have any since we don’t host}
or for the Turkey sandwiches you can make for lunch via sliced meat
or even better with the real thing.
I think the sauce is a healthier side than a huge pile of gravy, and its home made!


Here is what is needed:
*2 packages of fresh cranberries
{I actually think Ocean Spray’s Cranberries are the best, but Trader Joe’s are good too.}
*1 cup of sugar {healthier, I know questionable but these little guys are tart}
*1 cup of Brandy {a must and the alcohol burns off so no need to worry}
*3 tablespoons of Orange Peel

You then fully rinse and throw out any berries that are punctured or bad.
Lay the berries in a 9×13 inch pan and heat the oven to 325 degrees.
You will then use a place the 3 tablespoons of orange peel over the cranberries,
along with the sugar and brandy.

Once you have placed all the ingredients into the pan mix everything together.
Fold the berries into the mixture and then place into the oven.
It usually takes about an hour for the liquid to evaporate.

While the sauce is cooking your home will smell heavenly.
The oranges and the cranberries cooking are the essence of holiday!
Once you have noticed most of the liquid has evaporated,
pull the pan out of the oven and let it rest for a half and hour.
Spoon your sauce into a storage bag or tupperware.
Make ahead and freeze for up coming events or place in the fridge for three days max.
Great for impressing guests and even better than the molded kind in a can.
Enjoy!!!

On Veteran’s Day, one of our dearest family friends
invited us to come along with them for a day spent in Oak Glen, California.
Husby got off of work that morning from a two-day shift.
We pulled together and attempted to quickly tackle the morning routine
while trying to diffuse little arguments between our kids along the way.
It was definitely one of those chaotic mornings where the house was a mess,
the kids were cranky, and each time I turned around,
Mr. Finn was creating more of a disaster!
We left a good hour after we had planned…
I sacrificed a trip to Starbucks {to get a cup of my current addiction}
and we set forth on the road.
Luckily we didn’t run into any traffic, but we did get a bit off track… {to say the least}!
My dear friend, thankfully, gave me a buzz
and I told her the exit we had just taken
{we had finally stopped for that cup of coffee I was craving – smile}.
My directional friend quickly explained that we were headed the wrong way.
We were, in fact, headed up the mountain towards Lake Arrowhead.
After our detour, we finally hit our destination and couldn’t believe how lovely the area was.
There were yaks, deer, and beautiful country homes situated on roomy lots with big Fall trees.
It was peaceful, crisp, and just what we needed … {especially after the crazy morning we had}.
Although we didn’t have time to visit the apple orchards that particular day,
we did have an amazing day spent with some of our closest friends.
We took our kids to the petting zoo,
and walked around the rustic little town.
We couldn’t leave with out indulging in some vanilla roasted nuts, hot dogs, chili,
and some homemade warm apple burritos.
With two fresh apple pies in hand, we said good-bye to charming Oak Glen.
Hopefully we can make this into a Fall family tradition…
but next time will plan on a full day… with apple picking!










{So thankful to have this girl in my life…. my amazing friend Maria and I}


{Photo via: Love Fall Fashion & Beauty: Celebrity Quotes: What Is Beauty?}
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Salma Hayek
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Today has been very long day.
A very good day, but long.
A day of perspective as I had my son’s annual meeting with school to go over his goals
based on his Individual Education Plan.
It is always a nerve racking day.
One that makes my tummy do flip flops and when it is all said and done good or bad,
I often feel like a need a vacation afterwards.
I am feeling thankful but spent.
In times like this I often think of this quote I found on Pinterest some time ago.
It keeps life in perspective and it helps me to seek the positive and to move on.
Tomorrow is another day to start anew and yes Duckie I am Lucky!
{or what I like to say blessed}
Things are looking up for my little man!


It has been a busy week of celebrations.
We just finished having a very Happy Halloween. A week to the day is my son’s birthday.
Then it follows with my godson and sisters’ plus topping it off with Thanksgiving.
Whoa….. quite a bit, but as a mom you know it never ends just there.
So I have to be on my game with quick ideas and easy semi home made versions of great recipes.
Last week I spent an hour late at night melting chocolate over a double boiler plus making
homemade cupcakes from my favorite Magnolia Bakery recipe.
A bit of work, but well worth it for my son’s 6th birthday request and I feel great doing it.
The recipe I know very well and it is a go to one at that, but it is time consuming as baking
is a science and one must pay attention to all of the ingredients and steps.
Though I love baking this way, it is not practical when you have a busy activity week.
So when it is my turn to volunteer for cupcakes. I prefer to make a semi home made version
of some of my favorite recipes, I use boxed mix for the cake portion.
Magnolia Bakery’s Vanilla Butter cream is a favorite. 
I love everything about it, not too sweet and not too much but I now have a runner up.
Last year at Sara’s daughter’s birthday I experienced her Whipped Cream Frosting.
It is amazing. So much so I can eat a whole bowl of it.
I make it and think what can I dip this in add this to or frankly just smother this on!
Love love it! This is a keeper. Thanks Sara for sharing!
{I don’t know if my thighs are thinking the same thing}
*Whipped Cream Frosting*
Ingredients
1 (8 ounce) package cream cheese
1 cup white sugar
1/8 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 1/2 cups heavy whipping cream
Directions
In a small bowl beat whipping cream until stiff peaks form; set aside.
In a large bowl combine cream cheese, sugar, salt and vanilla. Beat until smooth, then fold in whipped cream.
Here is a glimpse of my yummy creation for The Green Ninja’s {Mason’s Soccer Team}


‘Tis the season to get out of the house and experience the holidays through a variety of festive outings!
Here is a list of hand-picked, and carefully thought-out, events and activities that are all family-friendly and reasonably priced…if not free {in the Southern California area}!
Most of which we have been to ourselves, and have enjoyed in years past {smile}. We hope you’re able to use a few of these ideas for some quality holiday family time!

{Photo via: To Do This Weekend: Apple Picking}
Apple Picking in Oak Glen from now until November 30, 2012
The Apple Butter Festival November 23-25, 2012
Visit orchards, pick mountain-fresh apples, and enjoy hot apple cider & pie at one of the many family friendly specialty shops!

{photo via: Irvine Spectrum’s Holiday on Ice}
November 7, 2012 – February 18, 2013
The Ice Rink is currently open for your whole family to enjoy! Skate sessions are 75 minutes long. Prices are $14 with an additional $3 skate rental. Skate sessions for toddlers cost $12. Helmets are optional and are provided free of charge. Season passes, private lessons, and private parties are available.

{photo via: irvine park, photos}
November 11 – 13th, 2012
Over this Veteran’s Day weekend, get into one of Caliornia’s National Parks for FREE!

{photo via: dana point harbor photos}
Thursday November 22, 2012
Fundraising proceeds benefit “The Dana Point 5th Marine Regiment Support Group.
This particular Turkey Trot typically has more than 10,000 participants. It is one of America’s most scenic coastal runs (5k & 10K).

{photo via: temecula wine country photos}
Saturday, November 24, 2012
The Temecula Turkey Trot (5K or 10K) with free wine tasting at the Cougar Vineyard & Winery.
Fundraising proceeds benefit energy projects in East Africa.
Ok so the pressure is upon us….well I guess just around the corner?
So many of my friends are chatting about when and where they will be taking their family photos
and what card company they will be using. Pressure right?!!!
The pressure to find the perfect card the perfect picture where your family is in-sync.
Not to mention the preparation of coordinating the clothes and look you are hoping that
will transpire from your brain unto the actual photography shoot.
Pressure……plus holiday pressure…yuck!
What happened to the days when people sent cards and made going into a Hallmark
Store a priority so that the pressure of this one card was not so high,
{oh yes, I still do this too!}.
Or what if you were very pleased with your family photo and card from last year like I was.
I had a wonderful session with my family and the photographer,
my Best Friend captured who we
are at heart {Candace Rock Photography}, and then to top it off
I found a wonderful deal on a Tri-Fold card on heavy card stock.
Ideal in my eyes…..
And now I am in panic mode.
Due to a busy fall, I am behind some what.
I have not had time to coordinate with our photographer a day when we can take photos.
I have decided that though I would like a family photo on our card that I need to
take some of the pressure off of the situation and create a new idea that works for me.
I love photographing my children.
I have taken a few photography classes myself on how to use my camera properly.
I am not an expert but I did arrange for a photo session with the kids ONLY.
After the loss of three balloons and a broken lollipop I may have caught a moment or two.
The family photo will have to wait…..
{an expert is needed for this…thanks Candace, perfect for Christmas gifts!}
but for now I am happy with the product that I captured with my own two hands.
Though I am not part of the photo I can look back at this as a witness through my own lens.



Last night I wrote my “Gratitude” post.
This morning I checked my email and found this from Paper Coterie…

Fitting, right?!
This looks like a darling family project.
You can download the following “Jar Full of Gratitude”
for free off of their site {here}.
I loved that they recommended keeping the jar {year round}
and recording your responses throughout the coming year.
That way you will create a “year full of abundance”
and be able to reflect on your family’s blessings next Thanksgiving!
This is a great way to model gratitude to our children…

{A Jar Full of Gratitude | Paper Coterie}

